Life Advice
/Health

Ask the dating coach
We’re here for another installment of “Ask Dating Coach Erika,” where people anonymously share their burning dating questions.
Question: Any tips for someone who works 80 hours per week and is always burned out but wants to date?
Answer: Trust me -- I wish I had the ability to create more hours in the week. Unfortunately, that's not in ...Read more

Ask Anna: I can't afford to be my friend's maid of honor
Dear Anna,
Three months ago, I excitedly agreed to be the maid of honor in my college roommate's destination wedding next summer, assuming it would involve standard expenses. Fast forward to now, and I'm realizing I cannot afford the costs: a specific designer bridesmaid dress, mandatory professional hair and makeup, the flight and five-day ...Read more

Talking phase' turnoffs
There’s an important period in a relationship that’s often overlooked in online dating: the point between finding an interesting profile and actually meeting in person. While there is certainly an art to crafting an interesting opening message — although anything more exciting than “Hey” or “How’s it going?” will often suffice, ...Read more

Ask Anna: What to do when your partner shuts down
Dear Anna,
I’m a 35-year-old woman currently in a relationship with a wonderful man (44) who has a complicated family situation. He shares custody of his young daughter with his ex-partner, who has a history of emotional abuse and manipulation. She actively tries to drive a wedge between him and his daughter, fights every single parenting ...Read more
Popular Stories
- Ask Anna: How to support your nonbinary partner while processing your own feelings
- Ask Anna: Feeling behind in gay dating? How to date confidently as a newly out adult
- Ask Dating Coach Erika: What do I do when his place is a pigsty?
- Ask Dating Coach Erika: Should I cancel my trip for my new boyfriend?
- Ask Dating Coach Erika: 'Why did he tell me that on our first date??'